Thursday, February 28, 2013

Raising him right!

Everyday I tell myself to update my blog and everyday it doesn't happen.  This month has been a crazy one.  I had two weeks of health so I had to grade 2,400 health assignments, my PE grant study with 20 students had to be done this month, Memphis and Kayzee had dentist and doctor appointments, we traveled (or attempted too---annoying weather), we had family visiting, we did our taxes, we are trying to refinance our house, I had parent teacher conferences, Valentine's day, no sleep because of Kayzee (see below), very sick kids, trying to entertain kids inside since it was too cold to go outside or the air quality was terrible, etc, etc, etc.  I am definitely looking forward to Spring Break in April but NOT for my birthday...HA!

Memphis had his 4 year well-check-up.  Last year at his 3 year he was 36 lbs and 36 inches tall.  This year he pulled the same number scheme again but he is definitely bigger!  He is now 44 lbs and 44 inches tall!  Grow Memphis Grow:)  I forgot to mention in his birthday post that he is our prayer monitor.  He never lets anyone go to bed without saying prayers first.  I love that he remembers that.

I have had a rough month of being a working mom and something happened recently that was a great compliment to me as a mother.  Me and the kids stopped by a gas station to get a treat and I let Memphis out and told him to stay right by me to go get Kayzee out.  He looked at me and said he wanted to go wait on the sidewalk.  While I was getting Kayzee out I looked up as a group of men were walking up to the gas station.  Memphis quickly stepped in front of them and said, "Let me get the door for you!"  Memphis then opened the door and held it open for them, he also waited there while another group of people came out.  Every single person said thank you and Memphis would promptly reply...your welcome:)  Some of the people did a double take (wow, a little boy holding open the door!)  I then walked into the store and a group of teenage boys came up to me and told me that I was raising my boy up right.  That was the best compliment coming from those teenage boys. It made me feel so good.  Danny and I try to teach our kids polite manners and opening the door for others has been one we have had Memphis practice.  Memphis is always the one to tell me first that he loves me and he tells people his favorite thing to do with me is give hugs and kisses.  I LOVE my Memphis and his hugs and kisses always cheer me up.

What's a blog post without any pictures?  Here are my cute Valentine's!!!!




I am planning a big post about Kayzee since I just did one on Memphis but I wanted to wait until after Kayzee's appointment with a GI specialist.  For those of you who didn't know Kayzee has had bowel problems since she was born and it is just getting worse.  It has been a long 2 years of no sleep and lots of crying.  I know that is why she is still not sleeping well at night because she is in so much pain some nights and she is just so uncomfortable.  Her pediatrician just kept telling me that it was her lot in life and she would just need to be on a laxative for the rest of her life.  SERIOUSLY!?!?!?!  Even though I was repeatedly calling him and asking for help or for other ways to help her other than a laxative that was all he would tell me.  That is not the life I would want to live so I definitely don't want that for my daughter.  And the laxative is not working like it should anymore.  Poor Kayzee is so miserable. 

I found a GI specialist in Utah county and they told me I didn't need a referral from my pediatrician (which I was grateful for since my pediatrician wasn't helping at all) but then I found out my insurance wouldn't work with them so I would have to pay way too much out of pocket.  Then I found out about some specialists at Primary Children's Hospital in Salt Lake and yeah! my insurance would cover them.  BUT I needed a referral from my pediatrician.  That was disheartening and it made me nervous but I went and spilled my guts and all my concerns to my pediatrician again and he told me YES!!!  Definitely an answer to a prayer.  Soooo Kayzee and I are heading up to Primary Children's for her specialist's appointment on Wednesday so we will see if we can't get her help so she can live a normal life and maybe we will all finally get some sleep.  Hopefully...

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Celebrating Memphis!

I first need to post pictures of Memphis growing up these past 4 years...such a cutie!

Birth
8 months
1 year
 2 years
 3 years
 4 years






My son is 4!?!  I still can't believe my little Memphis is so grown up.  He is the most charming, sweet, smart little boy.  He has all the girls at his preschool swooning over him;)  And the high school girls too!  He LOVES Sunbeams and Primary.  He is almost a year older than everyone in his class so he is the best at sitting still and following directions.  Going to preschool all day helps with that too.  He gave his first talk in Primary and did so well.  He always wants to go up and bear his testimony too.   He is so smart at everything and figuring out things on his own.  He surprised me one day and wrote his own name all by himself.  


His 4 year well-check-up isn't until next week so I will update you later on how that goes.  He is so excited and asks me everyday if we are going to the doctor.  He gets complimented on the fact that he LOVES the doctor and he does so well.  Such the opposite of his sister who HATES going.  An interesting thing when I was asking him his birthday questions (see below) he said he wants to be a doctor when he grows up and he wants to help babies.  SO COOL!  We did go to the dentist (which he loves too) and he had no cavities.  But the dentist did say the backs of his teeth are eroding and he is worried about reflux.  The dentist put him on flouride tablets and we will find out what the pediatrician says about that at his check-up.

He likes to joke around and say, "Just kidding!"  Whenever I ask him what he is doing he likes to say, "Nothing!" He is also getting better at playing with Kayzee without fighting.  Kayzee LOVES to copy her brother so I can see those two being trouble makers in the future.  We also finally got rid of the dreaded sippy cup.  He wouldn't go anywhere without it so I finally just threw it away and I told him big boys don't need sippy cups.  He was fine with that which surprised me but I am glad he didn't fight me on it.

His birthday was January 30 but we celebrated for a few days.  We went to TGIF's to get his free birthday meal.  On his birthday we went to Kangaroo Zoo.  It's a BIG blow up bouncy play place.  Memphis was in HEAVEN.  We will definitely be visiting again this summer.  We invited my cousin and her family.  Memphis loves to play with her boys.  We also invited my friend and her family so Kayzee would have a friend to play with too.  Thanks for coming Aja and Allison!  The only thing about the place was we couldn't bring in presents or any food unless we paid $150 for a party room.  YA RIGHT!  So we just ordered their overpriced pizza and opened presents on our way out the door.  Memphis loves his presents and he ran around giving everyone hugs.  THANKS!  Here are some pictures from that fun night...
























Since we couldn't bring in a cake for Memphis to blow out candles, the next night we had some other friends over for the cake and ice cream.  We had Danny's friend and his family over (his daughter sometimes babysits our kids) and we had our wonderful neighbors over.  I love our neighbors!  Thanks Layne and Smith family!  Memphis had to run around and give hugs to everyone this night too.  Thanks for the gifts!  Here are some pictures from that night.  Memphis got to pick out his cake.  I forgot to have them write a message on it so I hurried and wrote something with cookie icing I had laying around.  My writing didn't really turn out well, but it was delicious!












I had already bought the pirate ship for Christmas but since he had too many presents I just kept this one for his birthday instead.  Between Christmas and his birthday this boy has too many toys!!!  I have to post these cute pictures of Memphis and Kayzee eating dinner.  Before everyone came over for cake and ice cream I asked Memphis what he wanted for his birthday dinner at home (since we had pizza the night before) and he said cereal...this kid loves breakfast food.


Memphis got money from his great-grandparents...thanks!!!!  Since his Thorpe grandparents live so far away my mom had his birthday present mailed to our house and we skyped with her so she could see him open his present.  I love that we can skype with them!  Can't wait to see them in April!  My mom got him an Umi car from one of Memphis' favorite TV shows...Team Umizoomi.  It is a remote control car that actually follows whoever is holding the remote.  




His Royer grandparents sent him money too and he was so excited to go to the store and pick out a present and pay for it himself.  He did so good at making sure he got a present that was the price of the money he had.  Great way to teach him about numbers and money!  He picked out an angry birds car track.  


Thanks Thorpe and Royer grandparents!!!!!!  We all love and miss you:)

Starting when they turn 3 I ask them some questions so the last thing I am going to post is Memphis' answers to the questions this year compared to last year.  These are the exact words that came out of his mouth...

  • Favorite color?
    • Age 3: Blue
    • Age 4: Blue
  • Favorite toy?
    • 3: choo choo train track
    • 4: angry birds, jake pirate ship, umi car
  • Favorite fruit?
    • 3: nanas
    • 4: boonanas 
  • Favorite TV show?
    • 3: Einsteins
    • 4: Einsteins
  • Favorite thing to eat for lunch?
    • 3: Pizza and chicken knucks
    • 4: quiesadilla cheese
  • Favorite clothes?
    • 3: clothes
    • 4: not socks (he hates wearing socks)
  • Favorite game?
    • 3: game!
    • 4: wii!
  • Favorite snack?
    • 3: goldfish
    • 4: white and chocolate pop tarts (s'mors)
  • Favorite animal?
    • 3: puppy and kitty
    • 4: ducks
  • Favorite song?
    • 3: doing, cockcorn, spider, twinkle star
    • 4: Happy and you know it!
  • Favorite book?
    • 3: look find
    • 4: Lightening McQueen book from Sam and Aiden
  • Who is your best friend?
    • 3: Kayzee
    • 4: Kayzee, mommy, and daddy  (AWWWWWW!!!!!)
  • Favorite cereal?
    • 3: No cereal (he would never eat it)
    • 4: magic milk cereal (Cocoa Puffs turning the milk chocolately brown)
  • Favorite thing to do outside?
    • 3: Slide at park!
    • 4: Play in the snow and build a snowman (thought this was interesting because the year the winter he turned 3 there was literally no snow that year and this winter there has been a ton of snow!)
  • Favorite drink?
    • 3: Juice
    • 4: Chocolate milk
  • Favorite holiday?
    • 3: Presents!
    • 4: Halloween cause I get treats
  • What do you like to sleep with at night?
    • 3: Blue blankie
    • 4: Tiger and Toy Story night night light
  • What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast?
    • 3: poptart
    • 4: cereal or egg (he loves boiled eggs)
  • What do you want for dinner on your birthday?
    • 3: pizza and ice cream
    • 4: pizza and cake
  • What do you want to be when you grow up?
    • 3: Purple...game????? (I know he didn't understand the questions)
    • 4: Ten...and be a doctor to help babies...and be like mommy!
This is a really long post...SORRY!  

HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY MEMPHIS!!!  WE LOVE YOU:)